jueves, 10 de mayo de 2018


Young adult dating violence is a big problem,
 affecting youth in every community across the nation. 
What is your opinion about it?


15 comentarios:

  1. 1- Two of the most important rights a partner has are:
    •"I have the responsibility to make positive and healthy decisions, for myself, and others" because you have to be aware of what are you doing. You can't just do whatever you want, because you can hurt others and you can hurt yourself. Think and analyze your thoughts before they become actions, so you don't do wrong when you could have evoided it.
    •"If I don t want physical closeness, I have the right to say so" because intimacy shouldn't ever be force. Intimacy it's something you give because you want to. You shouldn't have the pressure of doing it, emotionally or physically. If it is against your will, then it's completely wrong and unacceptable.
    2- I have the responsibility to tell my partner that I want something else.
    I have the right to keep certain things to myself, and the responsibility to accept when my partner does it too.
    3- Dating violence is not a joke. Dating violence it's something serious and it should be talked in every school, every year.
    We are so used to just care about what happens to us, that we never see anything else apart that. We need to start looking por other people, to see if they need help, and to know how to help them. Of course that we need to know this things for ourselves too, so we have the knowledge to identify if we have a violent partner and if we are in a violent relationship. It's so important, because it's not just the punch of the moment or the bad words because "he/she was stressed out". Those behaviors molde us, make us submissive people, leave us alone with no company and no help at all. That could end up in several mental illnesses like anxiety, depression, or could end up in physical illnesses, or even death. Knowing gives you the possibility to do something about it. Knowing keeps you and others safe.

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  2. Martina Gargiulo

    1) I think that the most important rights they are:
    "I have the right to refuse a date without feeling guilty" and "I have the right to live my life free of fear from violence and abuse" because everyone is free to do what they want and is not obligated to do what the other person says, no matter how he reacts.
    2) I have the right to go out with my friends and dress as I want, no matter how the other person takes it.
    3) Is very important to be informed about aspects such as violence and maltartion to a couple. Many times it is justified with a "he is taking care of me", but no, is much more than that, he is manipulating you, you do not have to let this happen, you have to realize in time and ask for help.

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  3. 1.For me the most important rights are:
    I have control over my decisions and actions, and I know that my
    the rights end where the rights of another person begin
    . I have the right to live my life without fear of violence and
    abuse.

    2.I have the right to express myself freely without being afraid of what might happen to me.

    3.Gender violence is not a minor issue because thanks to this women who suffer such violence take the decision to take their own lives or continue living with that or many people who are causing this. This can be avoided by asking a family member for help , a friend or denounce the person that causes violence.

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  4. 1) The most important rights for me are:
    •If hace the right to live my life free of fear from violence and abouse, because we are free and we want to live in peace
    •If don't want physical closeness, i have the right to say so, because if a person is not ready, does not want for certain reasons or feels pressure but says yes, it is a mistake.
    2) I have the right to leave whenever I want, without my partner's permission.
    3) Fortunately, today it is easier to talk about violence. If you know something is wrong, if he does not let you meet with your friends, if he does not let you dress as you want, and many other things, your partner is manipulating you and that is violence.
    Talk to someone you know or know but ask for help, psychological, physical, emotional violence, etc. It is not healthy. Do not stay down, we're all together.

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  5. 1- For me, the most important rights are:
    "I have control of my decisions and actions, and know that my
    rights end where anothers rights begin"
    "I have the responsibility to make positive and healthy decisions,
    for myself, and others."...because you are an alone person, individual, free and independent. Nobody can or must manipulate and judge other one in no aspect. The decisions are alone of one and we have right to take them thinking about others but also the right to take decisions as you itself, for your own well-being, which egoist would not do to myself.

    2- I have the right to be listened and have the responsibility of listening to my partner.

    3-Definitively, daters violence must stop in some moment, all kinds of violence must stop. It's a serious topic, and it's necessary that it's spoken between all because it's present today in our society and already we can't look a side as if anything was happening. It's necessary look to ours around for a moment, there are persons who need urgent help, that spending the bad situation and they need containment or someone that I listened to them, or simply a motivation in order that they do that his life changes. I propose it, to talk, listen and help others and not think only about us.

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  6. 1- i think that most important rigths a partner has are;
    "I have control of my decisions and actions, and know that my rights end where anothers rights begin." because that it is important to be able to feel you capablly of taking your deciciones without another person to be influenced.
    "I have the right not to dominate or to be dominated." Because nobody must say to you that to do, and less if you do not want.
    "I have the right to live my life free of fear from violence and abuse." Because nobody deserves the violence, and it does not solve anything
    2.Another right for adding maybe can be " Have the right not to be attacked not threatened by your partner"
    3.For my this topic it performs supreme importance to clarify in the rights that we have on having been in a relationship. But also it is important to know like preevenir these situations and I think that before the violation of some about our rights we can speak with a psychologist or a nearby relative or a friend and despues to contact persons who are specialists is these topics.

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  8. 1-The most important rights for me are:
    ➡I have the right to live my life free of fear from violence and
    abuse.
    ➡I have the right to an equal relationship with my partner.

    2-I have the right to use and speak as I want.

    3-It is very important to talk about violence and toxic partners because it can help us prevent situations of abuse, or to help us tomorrow.

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  9. 1- What I think are important are:
    not be dominated by my partner
    I would not let him speak ill or threaten me
    2- no to obsecion
    right to have a healthy relationship
    3- I think that no woman should be mistreated by her partner, every woman has the right to have a relationship with whoever she wants and not be forced

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  10. Micaela Aguilar
    1- The most important rights for me are:
    I have the right to live my life free of fear from violence and
    abuse.
    I have the responsibility to make positive and healthy decisions,
    for myself, and others.
    Nobody can or must manipulate and judge other one in no aspect.

    2-I have the right to go out with my friends to talk to anyone
    And dress as you want, no matter what the other person thinks.

    3-It is very important to talk about violence because it can help us to prevent situations of violence.
    I believe that no woman should be mistreated by her partner or by any other person. It is very important to be informed about these aspects, such as one of them, violence and the misuse of a couple. You must realize on time and ask for help.

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  11. 1) For me, the most important rights are:
    -''I have the right to refuse a date without feeling guilty.''
    -''I have the right to an equal relationship with my partner.''
    -''I have the right not to dominate or be dominated'' and
    -''I have the right to live my life free of fear from violence and abuse''

    2)Could be ''I have the right not to be repressed''

    3)Dating violence is a complex issue, painful for some people and definitely important. We must be aware of our rights and how we can ask for help, and what we will get by doing so.
    It's important to understand that one is never guilty, and that we are never alone. And we have to be free souls, be happy and enjoy life.

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  12. 1)I Think that the most important rights are:
    _I have control of my decisions and actions, and know that my rights and where another's rights begin.
    Is your life and you can do anything.
    and anyone can't tell me what I have to do. You make all your decision.
    _I have the right not to dominate or to be dominated.
    Maybe is similar to you have the control of your decision.

    2)I have the responsibility to tell my partner that I want something else.
    I have the right to keep secrets for example with my Friends and my partner the same.

    3)About dating violence. First i think that is very shameful because is strange that talk about this topic but is very important learn.And in this moment in our country that if you have fourteen years old is very common have a partner.
    If you live this situations or lived maybe is very difficult overcome it but you can talk of your parents or a friend.
    You can go to psychology and have a traetment.

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  13. 1) In my opinion the most important rights are:
    -"If I do not want physical closeness, I have the right to say it"
    -"If they tell me that a relationship is changing, I have the right not to blame myself or change myself to keep it going".
    -"I have the right to live my life without fear of violence and abuse
    2) I have the right to be able to say what I feel without feeling afraid.
    3)I think that it is very good to talk about this topic in school since there are currently people who do not know how to react. You can prevent yourself from isolating yourself from loved ones, try to always tell the truth, do not be afraid to talk, get away from the person who hurts you, ask for help and do not blame yourself.

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  14. 1)In my opinion the most importants rights are these:*"I hace control of my decisions and actions, and know that my rights end where anothers rights begin"
    *"I have the responsability to make positive and healthy decisions for myself, and others"
    *"I have the right to live my life free of fear from violence and abuse"
    I believe that these three rights are the most important because, we must respect each other, and we must respect ourselves for our health. I believe that my rights end when the rights of the other begin.
    In my opinion that each of us is responsible for making positive decisions, to have a positive life. I believe that love is the most important thing in our lives.
    2)"I have the right to an equal relationship with my partner".
    3) In my opinion, I believe that courtships are to feel good and happy. Any type of relationship should not contain violence: physical violence, psychological, sexual, economic and heritage,symbolic, domestic violence, media violence.
    How we can prevent it? The answer is here: *Get to know the person before you go out by yourself, go with a group of friends.
    *Don´t trust people who apologize for their actions yet repeat their violent behavior again.
    *If you have heard of a person being violent in a relationship, don´t get in a relationship with them.
    *The best way to stop dating abuse is to start having conversations early and often.
    *Talk to your friends or people in your inner circle about their idea of a perfect relationship.
    *First thing is to know the warning signs.
    Some common warning signs or things to look out for are: *Jealousy
    *Controling behavior like: *Who you can talk to
    *What you can wear
    *Making you text and call to check in a lot!
    Some more serious things: *Isolation
    *Threats (Physical, emotional or through technology).
    *Any signs of physical harm.
    4) In my opinion: It is true it is a big problem. But we can solve the problems with education, with professionals, family and friends, and generating educational programs for the community.

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